The Secret to Being Sexy

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Is there a secret to being sexy?  Yes, there is.  But sometimes when we are in the midst of our journey we lose sight of where we came from and where we are currently.  It is so easy to focus on the goal – and you should – but be proud of your accomplishments.  You are not going to all of the sudden transform into a sexy beast when you reach your goal but you can be sexy now.

So what does it take to be sexy?  Sexy is how you feel and can be described in one word – confidence.  When you take care of yourself, you feel better but as moms we often neglect ourselves.  I’m guilty of this myself especially when my little boys were younger.

When I had my three year old, I returned to work when he was just three months old but I felt horrible about myself.  I was a manager but I would come to work looking messy, squeezing into whatever fit no matter how sloppy I looked.  No one said anything though.  One day I looked at myself and said if someone else came to work looking like this I would have to reprimand them.   From that day forward, I started taking the time to take better care of myself.  I noticed that my confidence started to rise.

Even though I was not yet to my goal and even still not even back to my pre-pregnancy weight, I felt good.  Doing things for myself made me a better mom, wife, and person.  At first, I felt so guilty for doing anything for myself but my husband encouraged me.  I would take a little time to get a pedicure, buy myself some clothes that fit, or workout.  This support helped bring me and my husband closer together because, let’s face it, having a baby can definitely put a strain on a marriage.

I want you to focus on the person that you are now and appreciate everything about you.  Celebrate it because you are worth it!   I recommend eating a clean diet, working out, and doing something for you, even something small, each and every day.  You will feel better, your confidence will rise, and you will be sexy!!   Now go be sexy.

This article was written by Bob on May 5, 2017

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